Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-24098614-20141115232011/@comment-6697950-20141116000810

The problem is, Asuna isn't that bold in real life. She is able to act tough despite her inner feelings, but that doesn't mean that she feels strong on the inside. She actually underestimates her strength and believes that Kirito wouldn't be with her if she wasn't strong, which is why she doesn't ask for his help - she doesn't want to show him that she feels weak about herself. Of course, when she does believe in herself and sets a goal, she can be rather determined.